these messy shoe laces

I love wearing shoes with jeans n trousers..its just sooo comfortable..okay we are not hear to discuss bout the comfort level of slip–ons..
There is a huge problem which I face while wearing shoes.Every now n then one can find me sitting on bench or steps struggling with my shoe laces..its not that I dnt knw how to tie a lace..but lately I discovered that my way of tying them was wrong..
Every hour someone or the other use to point out at my shoes asking me to tie those fluttering laces…I would then handover my helmet to my frenz n ask them to wait 4 a while(i must say they are very patient) so that I could end up with my laces again…my frenz are use to,with this habit of mine,as it more or less is becoming a part of my life...thinking positively,it isn't a bad back exercise,isn't it??ahh.. but enough of this back exercise..and to my ridicule
no one ever came forward to tell me what was wrong with my laces..
Then an angel in disguise(my mumma)helped me out.."Mother understands what a child does not say."a few days back I was sitting n tying the lace of my shoes, she was observing it very carefully,with a mischievous smile on her face..wen I got over with it..she gazed at me,i dnt know what was those looks for but they surely meant,"is this the way to tie a knot of a lace.." She then sat beside me and taught me step by step the right way to tie a knot.(of lace offcourse..)Precisely she tied it herself for me..n believe me that whole day the knot was as it is..it was at its place for bout 7 long hours..it was amazing..atleast for me it was a miracle..this is the reason why i regard my ma as an epitome of feminism...
"Some are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but they love just the same; and most mothers kiss and scold together."
We try to do certain things with perfection..but a touch of our parents fulfils the lacking finesse.
Since im a slow learner...I have yet not learned her way of tying knot of a lace....bt very soon I will..
She even advised me,saying that if u buy shoes next time,buy one without lace as there are multiple range available in the market..
But tell me one thing,have i gone for an unlaced shoe before,had I ever been able to learn this basic lesson of my life..
I know i am poor at tying knots(of lace)..but will surely learn it soon..

who cares..!!

A conversation between a boyfriend(bf) and girlfriend(gf) which led to a catastrophe.
Boy:Where have u been since last 15 dayz??
Girl:Hey forget tat,i have a fren who wanna see u??
Boy:Sure,I wud love to meet her.
Girl:But there is a problem..she met with an accident and was hurt pretty badly,has lost a leg..i was taking care of her since last few days..but now I have to go out for a month due to some work.i want u to come here and take care of her as I did..just for 1 month...
Boy:Im sorry to hear that honey,but may be we can find a nurse for her assistance.
Girl:No,I want u to look after her..
Boy:U dnt knw wat ur asking..someone with such a handicap wud be a terrible burden on me..i have my own life to live..i have my workload..n u want me to take care of that person for one whole month..tats 2 much..

The girl hung up her phone.the boy heard nothing from her..a few days later,he received a call from a hospital..stating that his girlfriend had died.the police believed it was suicide..the grief sticken boy rushed to the hospital.he recognized her,but to his horror he also discovered something he didn’t know.
His gf had only one leg...
we don't like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable,they usually belong to the rejected section of the society. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are.
But thankfully, there are few people who won't treat them that way. Someone who loves them with an unconditional love that welcomes them into the forever family, and i salute such people..

dare to dream..

“Some people live to dream,some dream to live”.
Defining dream is a tough job…
Just take a moment and think back to a time when you were playing and at the same time you were also living a dream. You may have been four, five, six, seven or even eight years old longing for an expensive toy bike..or your favourite Barbie dolls..
were these all dreams,or just fantasies and imaginations..but lemme tell u guys n gals the first step in dreaming is imagination..
So,What happened???
Why did you stop Dreaming???
One’s life is full of dreams some meaningless,but some with lot of connotations.
Those childhood dreams were just a short term dream…now u wud say that wat does this short term and long term dream complies
At a point in life you dream of getting a good job..but when you actually get one..that dream surpasses..and then you move on to your next dream.Getting married to ur beloved is one of your key dreams u tend to do anything,go against any1,in order to grow old with your loved one..and luckily u get her in ur life..bt wat aftr that.. does life ends there?i guess no..these are all short term dreams..
a long term dream is,where you wanna see urself after a certain stage in life..in accomplishing this long term dream you unknowingly fulfil many short term dreams…just close your eyes for 3 minutes and imagine what you wanna be at an age of 50,60yrs then u’ll come to knw what u actually want from life..
“Dreams don't have to come true at age 20, 30, or 40; they often occur long past when you thought possible.”
Do you still long for a bike when you grow up..or when you actually have one??or do you ever stop in front of a toy store to have a glance of your favourite Barbie doll. ?I guess some of you may answer this question with a resounding yes.. Well with a *smile I commend you for nurturing that very special side of you that allows you to dream. And I commend you for nurturing the child within.
But It's a shame as we grow in years and experience we also become more serious about life and through some bad experiences we become sophisticated and realistic.
I too have a dream,a bit unusual one,just a few people are aware of it..and guess what their reaction was..a big,handsome "WHATTT!!RU SURE"??I don’t knw whether I’ll be able to accomplish it bt I’ll work towards it..
The Thing is we want a speedy result to our dream, when we do this, we lose the ability to create, to fantasize and explore We grow up and leave behind the child within. It takes about 1000 neurons to paln a dream..so,dnt be so greedy dear give ur dream ample time to blossom..
We need to believe in our dreams. Just imagine for a moment if right now you could recapture all of those *Magic Moments(dream) and live them as if you were really there right now. Remember how you were feeling and what you were seeing and hearing. The journey to the dream may not be smooth,but realizing that u actually achieved it is "victory"..what else can you ask for..
Life doesn't have to be so serious and we don't really need to be so realistic, nor do we have to meet the expectations of others in terms of behavior n dreams.its our dream n living our dream is upto us.. So,next time you see a doll or a bike..just stop there and realize that u 2 can dare to dream..
“Cherish your visions and your dreams, as they are the children of your soul; the blueprints of your ultimate achievements.Don't let today's disappointments cast a shadow on tomorrow's dream”

the real me

It may seem as if I am carefree and strong,
Going through life as if nothing is wrong.
But no one has ever seen the real me,
They only know what I let them believe.
Most often my smiles are real and sincere,
Other times they help to hide my secret fears.
I carefully created a clever mask of illusion,
I wear it now to hide my pain and confusion.
So never is a tear seen falling from my eye,
I have learned to hold it all silently inside.
Quite often I want to just let go and weep,
But the pain is very intense and too deep.
I yearn to belong, to be one of the crowd.
To be able to speak of my dreams out loud.
Wanting so very much to be accepted,
Yet fearing the possibility of being rejected.
I need someone to discern the real me,
And not hold in contempt what they will see.
The weaknesses and flaws I try so hard to hide,
Are all part of the real me I keep hidden inside.

u go through many interesting articles n poem bt as time passes u tend to forget them,this is one amongst few which i wud always like to keep intact..becoz this is the 'the real me'..